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Why the obsession with Tubas? Well, I play a B flat Tuba in Stourport-on-Severn Brass Band.


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I read Theology at Birmingham University ( where I met Kathy) and was contemplating a career in the C.of E. but changed my mind and went into Social Work instead.  Happy years in Local Government (including a short time on secondment to the National Development Team for people with learning difficulties) culminated in a move to Barnardos in 1987 as an Assistant Director based at the Regional Office in Halesowen. 2001 was an eventful year as I retired from Barnardo's after nearly 14 years. This picture of me and my Boss was taken in July 2001 at my "official" leaving do at Barnardo's Break-Away Project based in Kidderminster. I had moved there from the Regional Office to see if a different job was more compatible with my hearing problems - it wasn't! More on that below.


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I joined Barnardo's Midlands Region in 1987 as an Assistant Director for Children's Services having spent all my working life since qualification as a Social Worker in 1971, first with Worcestershire County Council and then with Dudley Borough Council. I had a varied career up till 1987 and had managed both Social Workers and Staff who work in Residential Homes and Day Centres. Over the years I had become especially interested in the needs of people with disabilities and learning disabilities and when I went to Barnardo's I was able to concentrate on supporting and developing services for children who are disabled or who have learning disabilities too. I had a very happy time doing this work and was lucky enough to have been able to set up several new services (known as Projects) mainly around Nottingham and Derby.

Being based in Halesowen I either travelled up and down the M 42 several times a week - a bit boring to say the least - or stopped over in Nottingham. The 1990's were a time of  change for Barnardo's as it decided to concentrate on services for children families in the community and so the 3 remaining large homes for disabled children in the Midlands were closed. I therefore spent much of my energy helping to ensure that the young people who lived in them would continue to have somewhere to live as adults. Consequently we worked in partnership with Housing Associations and charities for adults to create several self contained housing schemes. It is hoped that these schemes will be able to ensure that these young men and women will enjoy good quality lives for as long as they need to remain there. If this paragraph has triggered some interest in the work of Barnardo's you may wish to find out more about what it does nowadays  so click on Barnardo's to go to the web site.

On New Year's Day 1996  I discovered that I had gone deaf in my right ear (it happened when I was in the Sainsbury's car park - how prosaic!) and next morning I had developed severe Tinnitus . This has  lead to big changes in my life so I have also added some thoughts on the subject. A few years earlier I had developed  high frequency hearing loss in my left ear. From then on I wore a hearing aid for that ear and because I also had mild Tinnitus I used a White Noise Generator 
in my right ear. The severe Tinnitus and deafness made life at work  difficult and Barnardo's helped me to hear better by buying me some special amplifiers which came in handy in meetings. After a while it was agreed that it would be better for me to do a less demanding and stressful job so I was re-deployed to work at Break-Away in November 1998. Break-Away finds families for children who are very disabled; otherwise known as recruiting Foster Parents.  Unfortunately the Tinnitus remained as bad as ever so  I was granted early retirement while working at the Break-Away Project. I was given a great send-off and my colleagues decorated my bike for me!
 


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Tinnitus

Tinnitus is still known to most people as "Ringing in the Ears" which is not a good description as it rarely sounds like ringing and it is not always experienced as being in the ears! In fact there are countless types of sounds that can be "heard" and these can be located either in the ears or in the head.

About 10% of the population will hear Tinnitus from time to time but only about 10% of this group will experience it incessantly and find it to be severe or distressing. It is not necessarily associated with going deaf, though this was so in my case. It does seem to often be caused by either physical or emotional trauma. Although there is no cure, people who are troubled by Tinnitus can do something about it.
 
In my expereience the best help is through services that provide Retraining Therapy which aims to help the brain to be less aware of the noise and to stop thinking that it is threatening. I was fortunate to have been referred to the Rehabilitation Service for Deafened People at Selly Oak, Birmingham, which provides this type of therapy. A White Noise Generator worn in the ear can also help this process.Tinnitus can be very upsetting and exhausting. It can cause loss of concentration and it is often worse when the person is feeling tired or is experiencing stress. It is, therefore, sometimes necessary to change one's lifestyle in order reduce the factors that trigger the worst experience of the Tinnitus.This is what I have done, and although the Tinnitus has not gone away  I am a lot better for it!

  I was a member of the users group of the Hearing Assessment and Rehabilitation Service (HARC) at the University Hospital, Birmingham, the new name for the service that did so much to help me.
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The British Tinnitus Association  maintains a web-site that is a source of useful information and advice. Another  superb web-site about Tinnitus is  maintained by Dr. Jonathon Hazell (now retired) and Jacqueline Sheldrake. Dr. Hazell pioneered Retraining Therapy in the UK  and Jacqueline is an Audiologist


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Rocket powered Tuba gif Kathy retired in 2007 from her job as Senior Lab Technician so we are now re-discovering our freedom together .When I'm not indulging in honing my creative skills on the computer, I am reading more, spending time getting on with DIY in the house and garden and researching my family. Access to the internet is fantastic and in both 2001 and 2003 I booked and planned our trips to America from the comfort of our study!  Kathy and I aim to get away in the Van more often but somehow there is some musical commitment or other to consider so it still seems to come out most in the school holidays..GRRRR.  We  are members of the RSPB, the Canals and Rivers Trust  and support a range of Green and Animal Welfare Charities. Having visited Cambodia, and been greatly affected by the human suffering caused by Landmines, we support Aki Ra and his efforts to clear them.

Playing in the Band , going out to listen to David playing his trombone and attending concerts are my main musical interests....and we like to experience and learn a little of how other peoples live.

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Here's me re-building the retaining wall adjoining the new patio we built in October/November 2008.
Now 68 and loving it!


 
 

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